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Anne kavramı, sadece biyolojik anlamda dokuz ay bebeği karnında taşıyan kadın için kullanılan bir kelime değildir. Anne, içinde sınırsız sabır ve sevgiyi barındıran; dünyaya geldiği andan itibaren çocuğun öz bakım ihtiyaçlarını yerine getiren, ona koşulsuz sevgi, güven ve huzuru sağlaması gereken kişidir. Bebekler güven duygusuyla doğarlar. Birey olmayı öğrenmeye yönelik içgüdü ile donatılmış şekilde, büyümek üzere bir sistemin içine dâhil olurlar. Dış etkenler, aile ortamı ve çocuğa yaklaşım biçimleri zamanla güven ve sevgi bağlarını şekillendirir. Doğumdan önce oluşmuş bu bağ, annenin tutumuyla zamanla yerini ya daha güçlü ve sağlam bir ilişkiye ya da gitgide artık birey olmaya başlamış çocukla araya mesafeler girecek kadar uzaklaşmış ve zayıflamış bağlara bırakır. Sağlıklı çocuklar yetiştirmenin birinci kuralı; ev huzurunu sağlamış, sabır sınırlarını arttırmış, koşulsuz sevgiyi öğrenmiş annelerdir. Anne, birey için, yaşı kaç olursa olsun, içinde sonsuz sevginin ve güvenin olduğu bir varlıktır. Bebeklik ve çocukluk döneminde anne sevgisi ile beslenmeyen birey tüm yaşamı boyunca başta bağımlılıklar olmak üzere güven sorunlarıyla baş etmek zorunda kalır. Bu çalışma, bağımlı kişilik özelliğine sahip annelerin çocuklarıyla olan ilişkisini bağlanma boyutunda incelemeyi amaçlamaktadır. Çalışmanın içeriği, alan yazında yapılmış araştırmalardan oluşan literatür taramasına dayanmaktadır.
The concept of mother is not a word used only for a woman who carries a nine-month baby in the stomach in a biological sense. The mother is the person in which there is unlimited patience and love; from the moment it is born, the child has to meet the needs of self-care, which must provide him with unconditional love, confidence and peace. Babies are born with confidence. They are equipped with the instinct of learning to be individuals, they are incorporated into a system to grow. External factors, the family environment and the ways of approaching the child shape the bonds of confidence and love over time. This bond formed before birth, with the mother’s attitude, leaves it over time either to a stronger and stronger relationship, or to a distant and weakened bond that is enough to enter distances with the child who has begun to become an individual. The first rule of raising healthy children is the mothers who have provided peace in the house, increased their limits of patience, learned unconditional love. For the individual, the mother is a being, no matter how old it is, in which there is eternal love and confidence. In childhood and childhood, a person who is not fed by mother's love is forced to deal with confidence problems throughout his lifetime, primarily addictions. This study aims to study the relationship of mothers with their children with dependency personality characteristics. The contents of the study are based on the scan of literature consisting of the research done in the field in the summer.
The concept of mother is not just a biological word for the woman who carries the baby nine months in her womb. Mother is a person who has unlimited patience and love in her, who fulfils the child's needs of self-care from the moment she comes into the world, who must find unconditional love, trust and peace. Babies are born with a sense of trust. Equipped with the instinct to learn to be an individual, they are involved in a system to enlarge. External influences, the family environment and the way they approach the child shape the bonds of trust and love over time. This bond formed before birth is replaced with the mother's attitude over time, either by a stronger and stronger relationship or by bonds that have become more and more individual and have become distant and weakened enough to engage in messages with the child. The first rule of raising healthy children is mothers who have strong home peace, have increased the limits of patience and have learned unconditional love. The mother is an entity for the individual-no matter how old-in which there is endless love and trust. The individual who is not fed with the mother's lover during infancy and childhood is forced to deal with trust issues, especially forgiveness, throughout his entire life. This study aims to examine the relationship of mothers with dependent personality traits with their children in terms of attachment. The content of the study is based on a literature review consisting of researches in the field.
Alan : Sosyal, Beşeri ve İdari Bilimler
Dergi Türü : Uluslararası
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