Abstract:

Although there is no consensus on the appropriate application of family mediation, research on how a family mediator will be "good" and also what skills they should have has drawn attention to some points. In this study, an effective family mediator is knowledgeable, has advanced conflict resolution skills, has basic knowledge of all stages of divorce and additional expertise that may be required to resolve conflict, is an active listener, patient, can communicate correctly with the parties, can create a sense of trust, respects values, has control. The importance of being a person who can hold hands, manage the emotional transitions of the parties, discover the underlying needs and move them towards a solution, listen and act with empathy was emphasized and the contents were explained. Family mediation requires the practitioner to be able to master a range of skills. Family Mediators are involved in a complex effort in the process. Mastering these skills and ensuring their effective use requires full and complete integration. Time and experience is the best guide.

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