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Hz. Peygamber, aile fertlerinden her biriyle ayrı ayrı görüşmüş ve onların dertleriyle hemhal olmuştur. Yeri geldiğinde sıkıntı içerisinde bulunan eşlerini teselli etmiş ve onları rahatlatıcı ifadeler kullanmıştır. Öte yandan çocuklarını karşısına almış, onları dinlemiş ve sıkıntılarını gidermeye çalışmıştır. Ayrıca çocuklarının geleceği ile ilgili bir mesele olduğunda onlardan habersiz hareket etmemiş ve onların da fikirlerini alarak karar vermiştir. Beşer olması hasebiyle Allah Resulü’nün de zaman zaman sıkıntıları olmuştur. Böyle bir ortamda ailesinin desteğini almayı ihmal etmemiştir. Öyle dönemler olmuştur ki Allah Resulü, sıkıntılar içerisinde ne yapacağını bilememiş, çaresiz bir vaziyette kalmıştır. Bu durumda hanımlarıyla istişarede bulunmuş ve onların telkiniyle sağlıklı bir karara varmıştır. Hz. Peygamber, hanımlarından memnun olmayan erkeklere, hanımlarıyla konuşmalarını ve onları anlamaya çalışmalarını tavsiye etmiştir. Konuşmanın fayda vermediği durumlarda tarafların birbirlerinden ayrılmalarını önermiştir. Bunun dışında üçüncü bir seçenek olan şiddete başvurmayı ise yasaklamıştır. Bu çalışma ile aile içi iletişimde, tarafların birbirlerini dinleme ve anlama kültürünü oluşturarak ailede meydana gelen problemleri, Hz. Peygamber’in örnekliğinde çözmeye çalışmaktır
by Hz. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) met with each of his family and he had their trouble. When he arrived, he comforted his wives in trouble and used them with relaxing expressions. On the other hand, he took his children in front of him, listened to them and tried to resolve their trouble. Also, when there was a matter of their children’s future, he did not act unknown of them and decided by taking their ideas. The five-year-old was the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam). He did not forget to get the support of his family in such a situation. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) did not know what he would do in trouble. In this case, he consulted his wife and made a healthy decision with their telecommunications. by Hz. The Prophet advised the men who were unhappy with their wives to talk to their wives and try to understand them. He suggested that the parties should be separated from each other in cases where the speech was not useful. This is a third option for violence to be banned. With this study in family communication, the problems that occur in the family by creating a culture of the parties to listen and understand each other, Hz. The example of the Prophet is to be resolved.
s The Prophet met with each of the family members individually and interested with their troubles. In case of need, he comforted his wife, who was in distress and used comforting expressions. On the other hand, he took his children, listened to them and tried to eliminate their troubles. In addition, when there was an issue regarding the future of their children, he did not act unaware of them and decided by taking their opinions. Due to being a human, the Messenger of Allah also had problems from time to time. There have been such periods that the Messenger of Allah did not know what to do in distress and remained in a desperate situation. In this case, he consulted with his wives and made a healthy decision with their suggestions. The Prophet advised men who are not satisfied with their wives to talk to their wives and try to understand them. He suggested that the parties should separate from each other in cases where the speech was not beneficial. The Prophet, on the other hand, has forbidden to use violence, which is a third option. With this study, it is to try to solve the problems that occur in the family by creating a culture of listening and understanding of each other in the family communication, in the example of the Prophet
Alan : Eğitim Bilimleri; Sosyal, Beşeri ve İdari Bilimler
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