Özet:

Thro his lifetime, man is looking for a path to happiness in many areas, in social, psychological, economic, political and religious aspects. Unfortunately, the most important stage of this is the preference for marriage and the prior choice of the spouse.  For marriage comes at the beginning of the institutions that make man happy or cause unhappiness. The choice of a spouse is the most important element that determines the level of happiness. In fact, it is important to choose the right spouse to spend most of your life together, happy. Otherwise, happiness seekers will leave their place for efforts to get rid of misfortune, which can be an example of the increasing divorce events in society, especially in recent years. Therefore, the choice of a spouse shows that it is one of the most important decisions in the human life and that it can have a positive or negative impact in many ways along with this decision that the individual will give the rest of his life. With this decision, the person decides with whom he will continue his next life, with whom he will go, develop and change, how he will continue his life, and even who he has a child, and with whom he will raise a child. In the Kyrgyz society, preference to marriage, which attributes great importance to the family institution, naturally finds life as a rooted tradition that extends from father to son, from generation to generation. In the traditional Kyrgyz society, the family house is planned by men, and the woman is established. These can be fixed if there are a number of shortcomings during the installation, but if there is a shortcoming and error at the beginning of the plan, it is difficult to fix it and sometimes impossible. The Kyrgyz family, carefully standing on the choice of spouses for a happy future of the youth to marry and to build a family, is found that a traditional team of spouses in the choice of spouses before marrying their children determines and makes a choice in this direction. In this study, the traditional practices and claims followed by the Kyrgyz family in the choice of spouses are classified and information about the status of spouses, the economic status of spouses, the status of spouses, the status of spouses, the status of spouses, the status of spouses, the characteristics of spouses and the prohibitions are provided. In the framework of the research called Traditional and Innovative Affairs of the Contemporary Kyrgyz Family, the Kyrgyz Family has been attempted to explain in the light of the sociological data of what the Kyrgyz Family is paying attention to on the basis of today's choice of spouses.